tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post606277832408202109..comments2023-06-20T05:07:32.843-07:00Comments on Gay Romance: BDSM: a Sexual OrientationErica Pikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01410036734790965799noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-8800236171002351472019-07-20T07:04:24.815-07:002019-07-20T07:04:24.815-07:00Intriguing post. I Have Been pondering about this ...Intriguing post. I Have Been pondering about this issue, so much obliged for posting. Really cool post.It "s truly extremely pleasant and Useful post.Thanks <a href="https://www.rise247.net/" rel="nofollow">Sexual Health Supplements</a><br />James harperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10107007805911544378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-66848173771542544132016-05-22T17:38:04.291-07:002016-05-22T17:38:04.291-07:00Good blog post. It was interesting reading about w...Good blog post. It was interesting reading about what's happening in Iceland :)<br /><br />penumbrareads(at)gmail(dot)comPenumbrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00994664068397132793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-70903607919903780862016-05-21T21:15:54.272-07:002016-05-21T21:15:54.272-07:00Wow, thanks for the honesty and advocacy. Nice pri...Wow, thanks for the honesty and advocacy. Nice prize, too! JTAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04538373409706250254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-71756631529596802092016-05-21T08:07:42.468-07:002016-05-21T08:07:42.468-07:00Hi Erika!
missed the blog hop and glad it's ba...Hi Erika!<br />missed the blog hop and glad it's back! Things are changing fast for all of us, aren't they? ;)<br />Whenever I manage to immigrate to Iceland, I'll look you up - but remember I'm ACE, so no sex, thanks! :D<br />Best<br />BarbBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13050997816758768608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-58825579580562193742016-05-21T02:52:33.443-07:002016-05-21T02:52:33.443-07:00I have never heard of this orientation before, tha...I have never heard of this orientation before, thank you for the very helpful and informational post and for educating me. Great way to spread awareness :)<br /><br />tiger-chick-1(at)hotmail(dot)comEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08772530580061009074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-2302523956980494322016-05-20T09:05:13.626-07:002016-05-20T09:05:13.626-07:00I may not understand kinks, but each to his own. I...I may not understand kinks, but each to his own. I do appreciate your openness and participation in this hop. Thanks!Lena Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06598473302061399248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-58859239136197862962016-05-20T03:41:25.014-07:002016-05-20T03:41:25.014-07:00great explanation!
I have no problem believing kin...great explanation!<br />I have no problem believing kink/fetishism is an orientation...I too remember having a bondage kink from the age of 5 or 6<br /><br />leetee2007(at)hotmail(dot)comLee Toddhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07063574040534108712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-80731048282777972642016-05-19T19:13:57.860-07:002016-05-19T19:13:57.860-07:00Erica,
love your post. I find your explanation eas...Erica,<br />love your post. I find your explanation easy to understand, and have to say, it is sad to see the same arguments used against it. <br />Cherie NoelCherie Noelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15857878847402931997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-76355350115094889312016-05-19T08:02:18.703-07:002016-05-19T08:02:18.703-07:00Now I'm curious what the second kink is....Now I'm curious what the second kink is....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17281809236970412176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-66221347504556968242016-05-19T06:54:01.682-07:002016-05-19T06:54:01.682-07:00Great post, Erica. I remember getting busted for ...Great post, Erica. I remember getting busted for tying up my Barbie dolls! I also fondly remember Bat Girl in her spandex getting tied up all the time, so I think there might have been a wee bit of cultural influence on my orientation.Alexis Duranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15582838606796213690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-78688850219134888282016-05-19T02:26:46.815-07:002016-05-19T02:26:46.815-07:00That was a very interesting post, thank you, Erica...That was a very interesting post, thank you, Erica. I do think everybody is free to experience their sexuality in whatever way they feel like, as long as both parts are adults and consenting. I'm not much into de BDSM world because I'm naturally averse to pain, but I recognise I love reading about it... Maybe I have a secret kink as well?<br />susanaperez7140(at)gmail(dot)combooksandmorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08532708449690859492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-15314809389988273992016-05-18T16:01:32.476-07:002016-05-18T16:01:32.476-07:00The hubs and I have discussed orientation time and...The hubs and I have discussed orientation time and again over the 18 years we have been together. What we have come to is that each of us has our own personal orientation. There are no two individuals that like 100% of the same things, period. Hopefully you are blessed enough in life to find someone who shares the majority of what you like/need/want in a relationship. For this reason I feel that we all need to have an open mind and realize that just because something does not float our boat does not mean it has no value to another person. If we could all just step outside of our own points of views and be willing to accept that our differences are what adds color and flavor to the world, we might just be happier ;) Thank you so much for sharing your story and point of view!<br /><br />sionedkla@gmail.comKassandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09985856663502841108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-73308511447736706692016-05-18T07:20:43.828-07:002016-05-18T07:20:43.828-07:00Very informative. Thank you for sharing.
shortych...Very informative. Thank you for sharing.<br /><br />shortychelle@outlook.comShorty Chellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06442250895627509425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-49659699333995153432016-05-18T06:01:16.954-07:002016-05-18T06:01:16.954-07:00Thank you for sharing this! I also have kinks I do...Thank you for sharing this! I also have kinks I don't share publicly (and weren't covered in 50SoG either, LOL). I hadn't really thought of it as an orientation, but it makes sense. I think I was 5 or 6 when mine appeared. I liked how you talked about it not being all about sex, too--mine also is not and can be about comfort as much as anything sexual. What a terrific and informative post!AM Leibowitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04209724829228883552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-82281151754783115162016-05-17T15:20:51.990-07:002016-05-17T15:20:51.990-07:00Thanks for sharing and for going into details and ...Thanks for sharing and for going into details and talking about studies. It was an interesting and informative post.<br />humhumbum AT yahoo DOT comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-56785918827748336332016-05-17T09:22:41.206-07:002016-05-17T09:22:41.206-07:00Thanks for informative post.
cvsimpkins@msn.comThanks for informative post.<br />cvsimpkins@msn.comCorneliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08199342104703124890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-74370823068494258482016-05-17T09:04:58.943-07:002016-05-17T09:04:58.943-07:00I always think of that Pansy Division video where ...I always think of that Pansy Division video where Jon Ginoli is wearing a shirt that says "Feel No Shame In Your Desire." That always stuck with me!<br /><br />Trix, vitajex(at)aol(Dot)comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-22299747967976878582016-05-17T08:43:09.219-07:002016-05-17T08:43:09.219-07:00Very thought-provoking post - thank you for being ...Very thought-provoking post - thank you for being so open on the subject. :)JL Merrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15757616137877434008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-66489351360765298332016-05-17T06:33:27.118-07:002016-05-17T06:33:27.118-07:00thanks for the great post. i really don't thin...thanks for the great post. i really don't think there's anything wrong with having a fetish or two when it comes to sex and as long as everyone is consenting it can make things real funlauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08770659546247454511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-80688174776377087752016-05-17T06:21:01.498-07:002016-05-17T06:21:01.498-07:00Hi Erika! Thanks so much for bringing the Hop to l...Hi Erika! Thanks so much for bringing the Hop to life over the past few years and also for your courageous personal story. It's interesting that you mention the split between old and young generations in terms of attitudes toward BDSM inclusion. I guess I'm somewhere in the middle as a post Stonewall Gen Xer, but I've always been intrigued by the history of the LGBT movement, which began with a similar split, not related to age so much, but related to vision.<br /><br />I think that the original Gay Liberationists like Frank Kameny would have supported BDSM under the umbrella while the assimiliationist movement, more conservative, would have seen it as too radical and "scary" to have a chance to be accepted in the mainstream.<br /><br />The more things change, the more they stay the same. :)<br /><br />Good luck with your activism and your writing! Andyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09965400351732746441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1474876370737693502.post-51356758096873609492016-05-17T03:33:17.273-07:002016-05-17T03:33:17.273-07:00That was really interesting and makes perfect sens...That was really interesting and makes perfect sense if anyone wish to actually think about it <br /><br />Beeheeley(@)gmail(.)com Bronwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07756344774596974040noreply@blogger.com